Couples, Partners & Relationship Therapy

Relationships get blocked. By hurt that hasn't been heard, by patterns that formed before the relationship did, by the difficulty of being seen clearly. Couples work, at its best, creates the structure and safety to tolerate that visibility — and to find a way back into connection.

I work with all kinds of relationships: romantic partnerships, marriages, professional collaborations, creative partnerships, bands. I have extensive experience working with polyamorous, ethically non-monogamous, and kink-identified individuals and relationships. All relationship structures are welcome here.

Weekly Sessions

Ongoing couples therapy follows the same relational and psychodynamic orientation as my individual work — close attention to patterns, what gets avoided, what the relationship is organized around that neither person has fully named. Sessions are 50 minutes and available via telehealth across California.

Relationship Intensives

For couples who want concentrated, immersive work rather than the slow accumulation of weekly sessions. Intensives take place in person in Ojai over one or two days, with extended morning, afternoon, and evening sessions and structured time in nature between them. The pace and depth of an intensive can move something that weekly sessions might take months to reach.

Couples arrange their own accommodation in Ojai. Contact for more info.

Intensives are available to couples who have had at least one prior session together with us.